tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post3894471261062315609..comments2023-06-30T08:42:42.999-07:00Comments on ...like a fat kid loves cake: You're Gorgeous!KyokoCakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06291866202312903020noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-92158176758996124622010-06-17T19:44:09.722-07:002010-06-17T19:44:09.722-07:00I'm so happy to hear that someone GETS it!!! ...I'm so happy to hear that someone GETS it!!! I feel like people always think I'm just bragging but I think everyone should feel as loved and awesome as I do :) it makes me really, really happy to hear you feel that way too!!KyokoCakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291866202312903020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-51618016353131094062010-06-17T15:33:16.409-07:002010-06-17T15:33:16.409-07:00I know EXACTLY what you mean about "the look&...I know EXACTLY what you mean about "the look". My husband of 27 years still tells me EVERY DAY how "awesome" it is to be married to me and he looks at me like he's looking at the most beautiful woman in the cosmos. It's not something one can describe, but it's something you know when you see it, you FEEL it. You feel all warm and totally accepted, and trust me, I say to THAT commenter, a very obese woman (me) can be very beautiful in the eyes of people who love or like them. :) Even being fat as a barn, I've gotten looks from men, especially men from countries where being superslim is not the only beauty standard. :)<br /><br />BTW, your husband is not alone. I think you are REALLy cute. Your smile is adorable. And, frankly, your hubby is cute, too.<br /><br />But mine is cuter. hehehehehehPrincess Dieter aka Mirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01121450857817115011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-9335973605901055312010-06-08T09:58:46.558-07:002010-06-08T09:58:46.558-07:00I knew what you meant! Plus, that anonymous comme...I knew what you meant! Plus, that anonymous commenter was totally insensitive. You ARE beautiful! :) Way to stay positive.Jackie Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13583385629219797068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-53163630717066557212010-06-08T07:41:22.621-07:002010-06-08T07:41:22.621-07:00Thank you guys SO MUCH for the support!!! All that...Thank you guys SO MUCH for the support!!! All that was so awesome to read and really made me so happy!!<br /><br />@Spaghetti Cat- It completely makes sense! Everyone I think can agree that preference in hair color or height is an opinion and they just need to get that preference in weight is only an opinion too :)<br /><br />@Kelli- I did think for a second that I wanted to respond "I don't think 'obesely' is a word..." but then I thought, ok here is another opportunity to show someone who doesn't get me, why I am so overly happy with myself. Haha!<br /><br />@Katie J- I was thinking about it and still am. I left it open to anonymous comments mostly for a few people I know personally who wanted to be able to leave them...so I'm still deciding...and hopefully people like that are few and far between!!!KyokoCakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291866202312903020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-82989348606507996832010-06-07T19:31:23.989-07:002010-06-07T19:31:23.989-07:00that is a beautiful picture of the 2 of you! as ot...that is a beautiful picture of the 2 of you! as others have said, you are beautiful, and you absolutely can be beautiful and fat, its all about self perception and confidence, and that translates inner beauty into anyone who believes in themselfAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-26528893714481070302010-06-07T15:23:51.867-07:002010-06-07T15:23:51.867-07:00Love your blog! And I agree, it is offensive of a...Love your blog! And I agree, it is offensive of a person to implicate that you can't be both cute and fat. Ugh, some people are so narrow-minded! I love your response though!<br /><br />BTW, thanks for your comment on my blog! It's great to get the support!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11075273010146674296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-28011354191241486102010-06-07T10:59:59.752-07:002010-06-07T10:59:59.752-07:00Nice loss Kyokocake!
May I suggest that you chang...Nice loss Kyokocake!<br /><br />May I suggest that you change your settings to No anonymous comments. I never had them on and seem to do just fine. I have seen some HARSH things written behind anonymous so I am not even going to give them that option know what I mean?<br /><br />xox Have a good day!Katie J ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/15076043147542620428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-27514148729560245542010-06-07T10:47:31.081-07:002010-06-07T10:47:31.081-07:00You are amazingly awesome ... and you and your hus...You are amazingly awesome ... and you and your husbandcakes are SO adorable!!! (Even though he doesn't have facial hair ... my Tom's bald with a kickass gotee deal going on. I likey! LOL)<br /><br />I am so impressed with how you dealt with that comment. I felt myself tense all up when I was reading it. I doubt I ever would have handled it with this much eloquence and pure awesomeness.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03140525208481352659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-46740099693884162382010-06-07T10:07:16.341-07:002010-06-07T10:07:16.341-07:00Kyoko-
You are too nice. Whoever left that comment...Kyoko-<br />You are too nice. Whoever left that comment was most likely not trying to engage in a productive discussion, but you turned it into one, which is awesome. I'm much more petty than you are, so let me take a moment from our weight watching day to point out that that commenter was just being a hater, one with really poor grammar, at that (news flash 'obesely' is not an adjective or an adverb, nor is it even a word). And posting anonymously? This clearly demonstrates that your intentions are not innocent. <br /><br />Good for you, K, for not letting dumb comments like that break your stride and for turning them into something positive. Yes, what is attractive is purely subjective. It takes a bigger brain to see beyond the one dimensional mold of 'beautiful' society has constructed.Kelli L.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-90468304903401499202010-06-07T10:03:58.159-07:002010-06-07T10:03:58.159-07:00Totally agree. Actually I happen to be one of thos...Totally agree. Actually I happen to be one of those people who prefer chubby guys over muscular or thin. When people post pictures of guys form magazines or online Im like oh yeah....<br /><br />Call me if you want to eat some cheeseburgers :) Obviously not really I have an amazing husband, but to me like you its a personal preference. I like guys who look like teddy bears and don't look like 10 year old girls or like parts of their body are exploding out after trying to be strapped in.<br /><br />Its not that I can't appreciate different looks on different people, just what is physically attractive to me is different if it makes sense?Spaghetti Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06440623307962375719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8686004642769751174.post-56139193186077670172010-06-07T10:02:35.704-07:002010-06-07T10:02:35.704-07:00Hear, hear! *standing ovation*
And congrats on t...Hear, hear! *standing ovation*<br /><br />And congrats on the loss! :)Chibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247441931305025516noreply@blogger.com