Hi lovelies. I haven't posted in awhile have I? Over a week, I believe. As usual, I was just too too too busy!! I had a woooooonnnnnnnnderful weekend in Tahoe with some really fabulous people, and then of course spent the past two days really spending some quality time with Husbandcake and getting my relaxing on.
Yesterday was my birthday. I'm 30!! I'm not one of those people opposed to aging. My life has gotten better every single year I've lived it (ok let's say, since I turned 18 at least). It's continuing to get better.
I entered my 30s not obese. My scale told me yesterday that I was at 178.1 (that's after a weekend of some serious drinking and eating of delicious foods). I cried a little bit...not being obese still means a lot to me, gets me very emotional. Last February I never realized how serious I could be about losing weight and being healthy. The dress I wore to my 29th birthday party was a 3x. The shirt I wore yesterday was a size large. I feel different. I had a little mini cake roll from the Asian market instead of a full on cake. Don't get me wrong, I loved it like a fat kid loves cake, but I never envisioned a day I wouldn't have a good sized cake that me and Husbandcake would pick our way through for a whole week.
I entered my 30s a runner. A runner! I was on vacation in Tahoe over the weekend...and I ran. In the snow, all bundled up. It felt so good. My whole life I thought I hated nothing more than running. I played soccer for 12 years growing up, and I mean...if they made a sport like soccer where you could kick the ball around without moving I think I would have liked it a lot more. Now I crave it. It took what, a month?? And I crave running? Love, love, love it.
I entered my 30s wearing pants. Yeah, I know that sounds crazy but after years of not wearing them I feel great. That extra 70 pounds looks great now that it's gone from my body. I lost my chipmunk face. I would say I look great in my jeans but to be honest with you...they're feeling a little big on me ;) Husbandcake and I were at a friend's house briefly yesterday and he said when he came and stood next to me, putting his arm around me he couldn't believe how different it was. To go in a year and a half from barely being able to give me a big hug, to being able to hold me like that meant so much to him. And it means SO MUCH to me.
I entered my 30s in control. Well, almost in control. I'm still having some trouble with the OCD stuff. Still a little obsessive, but it's nowhere near where it was a couple of weeks ago. No depression, everything has been happy. There's been pockets of stress here and there but nothing I can't handle! I feel so much more in control of my own thoughts and it makes me happy.
I entered my 30s feeling beloved. I know quite a few of you are my facebook friends and my new Twitter friends and I was so overwhelmed by the number of people wishing me a happy birthday (although sorry all of you, because my favorite birthday wish came today, courtesy of the singer of my theme song - speaking of which, I've been listening to it every morning to remind me that I can kick ass every. single. day.) I actually was brought to tears twice yesterday just from feeling surrounded by the most wonderful people anyone has ever had in their lives, online and in person.
I love each and every one of you reading this. I'm feeling sappy today. I wish you all lived close to me and we could just hang out in one big fabulous group of amazing people.
I doubt I'll be back posting until after the masquerade ball on Saturday (do you live near me?? Are you coming to the ball??), I think I'm about to become the busiest person ever. But I will be back, I do miss blogging, I do love all of you and I think about you and wonder how you're doing and want to read your blogs again, but it's just so tough. I'm gonna have to...cut down my list of like 400 blogs I read or something!
All right loves. I hope you are all having beautiful wonderful healthy times!! If you really, really love me...post a comment telling me how you've been, because I really, truly want to know. I miss you guys when I am only posting sporadically and not reading blogs. I miss you a tonnnnnnn :) have a fabulous day!!